Coming Out: Self Acceptance

Everyone shares their experiences of coming out to family and friends and we all know how difficult it can be but what you don't see a lot of is the stories of how people came out to themselves. Everyone's journey is different, some people have always known their sexuality and accepted it, others have known... Continue Reading →

What Not to Do on a First Date

You're probably expecting "ten things to avoid doing on a first date" and if you are then sorry to disappoint but you're not going to get it here. I actually find these types of post insanely dull, most of it is common sense like "don't turn up smelly and unclean". I mean c'mon who has... Continue Reading →

What’s My Sexuality?

This is a question I think almost everyone in the LGBTQ+ community has asked themselves at some point. Discovering your sexuality is a rollercoaster of a journey and potentially one of the most confusing times in your life. I'm sure at some point we've taken the classic "what's my sexuality?" or "am I gay?" quizzes.... Continue Reading →

Ten Alternative Valentines Ideas

I don't know about you but personally I'm bored of reading about cute date ideas for valentines (low-key just bitter because lockdown means I can't see my girlfriend). But anyway, I've taken the executive decision to give you all some alternative (slightly anti-valentines) ideas. 1. Burn Your Exes Things I know I know "valentines is... Continue Reading →

Coming Out: A Break Up Story

How do you break your boyfriend's heart? Simple; date them for four years, make a ton of happy memories together, start planning a future and then, just when they think it's getting properly serious, you come out as lesbian and tell them you're not attracted to them and possibly never really were. That's obviously not... Continue Reading →

First Date Disaster

I definitely should not have gone on that date. Before we get to the date let me walk you through the red flags I so happily ignored. Do you ever have those moments where you just sense something's off? The person you're talking to isn't necessarily doing or saying anything wrong but their vibe just... Continue Reading →

TikTok Lesbians

A question I get asked a lot is how did I come to realise I liked girls? Looking back there were a million different signs but sadly, thanks to comphet (post to follow on this), I noticed none of them. I had been with girls before, in fact almost every night out I would get... Continue Reading →

About the blog

I should probably start by explaining what the term "baby gay" even means. Urban dictionary has it defined as a person who is newly out. I'd say it's basically that moment when you meet a fellow queer and tell them "I just came out" and they respond, normally with excitement, "OMG a baby gay!" Personally,... Continue Reading →

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