The journey of a 20-something woman discovering her sexuality
I don't know about you but personally I'm bored of reading about cute date ideas for valentines (low-key just bitter because lockdown means I can't see my girlfriend). But anyway, I've taken the executive decision to give you all some alternative (slightly anti-valentines) ideas. 1. Burn Your Exes Things I know I know "valentines is... Continue Reading →
How do you break your boyfriend's heart? Simple; date them for four years, make a ton of happy memories together, start planning a future and then, just when they think it's getting properly serious, you come out as lesbian and tell them you're not attracted to them and possibly never really were. That's obviously not... Continue Reading →
I definitely should not have gone on that date. Before we get to the date let me walk you through the red flags I so happily ignored. Do you ever have those moments where you just sense something's off? The person you're talking to isn't necessarily doing or saying anything wrong but their vibe just... Continue Reading →
If you follow the blog you'll know that I only discovered I was a lesbian in 2020 at the grand old age of twenty-five and it got me thinking "how did I not realise until now that I was a lesbian?" What is compulsory heterosexuality? On the face of it it's pretty simple; "When somebody... Continue Reading →
A question I get asked a lot is how did I come to realise I liked girls? Looking back there were a million different signs but sadly, thanks to comphet (post to follow on this), I noticed none of them. I had been with girls before, in fact almost every night out I would get... Continue Reading →
I should probably start by explaining what the term "baby gay" even means. Urban dictionary has it defined as a person who is newly out. I'd say it's basically that moment when you meet a fellow queer and tell them "I just came out" and they respond, normally with excitement, "OMG a baby gay!" Personally,... Continue Reading →
Baby Gay Days 