The journey of a 20-something woman discovering her sexuality
Before coming out the thought of dates lasting anymore than one night absolutely baffled me. My standard dating pattern was going for drinks (and getting inevitably smashed), bringing them back to my place and then punting them out the door as soon as the sun was up. The idea that I would want to spend... Continue Reading →
*Disclaimer: all covid precautions have been followed, your gal is fully vaccinated (big flex, I know) and I've made sure to follow the rules. It's been quiet on the blog the past few months, the reason being that things with my girlfriend ended and I was completely devastated. The breakup was so unexpected and it... Continue Reading →
Coming out is never easy, there's always that fear that someone will react badly but coming out to my parents was the one I was most worried about. I love my parents and they love me but I was acutely aware that for my whole life I had only ever been with men (as far... Continue Reading →
How do you break your boyfriend's heart? Simple; date them for four years, make a ton of happy memories together, start planning a future and then, just when they think it's getting properly serious, you come out as lesbian and tell them you're not attracted to them and possibly never really were. That's obviously not... Continue Reading →
A question I get asked a lot is how did I come to realise I liked girls? Looking back there were a million different signs but sadly, thanks to comphet (post to follow on this), I noticed none of them. I had been with girls before, in fact almost every night out I would get... Continue Reading →
I should probably start by explaining what the term "baby gay" even means. Urban dictionary has it defined as a person who is newly out. I'd say it's basically that moment when you meet a fellow queer and tell them "I just came out" and they respond, normally with excitement, "OMG a baby gay!" Personally,... Continue Reading →
Baby Gay Days 